Suchitra Mohanlal looks back at the early days of her relationship with Mohanlal and remembers the concerns her father had before the couple got marriedShe also shares details about how they first met and how their relationship developed.
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Suchitra Mohanlal recalls how her father reacted to her decision to marry Mohanlal (PC: Twitter)
The story behind Malayalam superstar Mohanlal and Suchitra Mohanlal’s marriage is one that has largely remained away from the spotlightAfter decades together, the actor’s wife has now shared some personal memories from the early days of their relationshipIn a recent conversation, she spoke about their first meeting and explained how her father reacted when she expressed her wish to marry the superstarShe also remembered the advice she received before taking the decisionHer father wanted her to understand that marrying an actor could come with challenges and asked her to be prepared for the demands of a life connected to the film industry.
Suchitra Mohanlal remembers meeting Mohanlal
Suchitra said her first meeting with Mohanlal happened at a weddingSince their families already knew each other she had the opportunity to meet the actorAt the time she was also an admirer of his workShe recalled approaching Mohanlal as a fan and asking him for a photographInterestingly she said she never ended up receiving a copy of that pictureThe meeting however stayed with her and eventually her feelings for the actor became more serious.
What did Suchitra’s father tell her?
When Suchitra told her family that she wanted to marry Mohanlal there was reportedly no major objectionShe suggested that the proposal could be taken forward through actor Sukumari who was known to her fatherHer father was Tamil film producer K Balaji who had produced several successful films including Thalaivar Rajinikanth’s BillaBefore giving his approval he wanted Suchitra to understand what life with an actor could involve.
Recalling his advice during her conversation with Can Channel Media, Suchitra said, “He told me you should think about it firstBecause you are going to marry someone who works in an industry like thisSometimes he stays home, sometimes he goes to a shoot and doesn’t come back for a few days, and if you come with a puffed face, it won’t workAnd when you’re in this industry, you hear a lot of things.”
She continued, “You have to be able to handle all of that wellYour mother is a very calm personYou see your mother adjusting everythingYou will have to do the sameIf you come back tomorrow and cry, saying, ‘Daddy he’s like this or that,’ I will not let you back into the houseSo, you just have to think about everything and decide.”
The message was clearHer father wanted her to make the decision only after understanding the realities of being married to someone whose career involved constant travel long shooting schedules and public attention.
Mohanlal and Suchitra’s family life
Mohanlal and Suchitra got married on April 28, 1988They have two children, son Pranav Mohanlal and daughter Vismaya MohanlalWhile Mohanlal has remained one of Malayalam cinema’s biggest stars Suchitra has mostly stayed away from public attentionTheir decision to keep family matters private has allowed them to maintain a relatively quiet personal life despite the actor’s long and highly visible career.