While discussing his personal views on relationships Suriya offered men a straightforward tip that may help avoid unnecessary arguments and bring more understanding between couples.
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Suriya’s relationship tip for married men goes viral (PC: Instagram)
Suriya may be one of Tamil cinema’s biggest stars but his latest relationship advice was surprisingly simpleWhile promoting Vishwanath & Sons in Hyderabad, the actor was asked what husbands should do to maintain peace at homeHis answer came with a laugh and a small gesture that instantly made the audience reactSuriya has been married to actor Jyotika for nearly two decades and his comments also reflected his views on what makes a relationship lastFor him, love alone is not enoughListening, respecting your partner and continuing to show affection matter just as much.
Suriya’s one rule for married men
At the pre-release event of Vishwanath & Sons anchor Suma asked Suriya a direct question about maintaining peace at homeA fan wanted to know what the first rule should be for a husbandSuriya smiled and placed a finger over his mouth to signal silenceHe then gave a short answer: “Stay silentOnly listenDon’t talk.”
The light-hearted response drew attention because of how simply he put itRather than turning the question into a long discussion Suriya suggested that sometimes listening can prevent unnecessary arguments and help couples understand each other better.
His bigger message about lasting love
Suriya’s thoughts did not stop with his humorous answerWhen another fan asked him about the secret to a successful relationship he spoke about mutual respect“I’ve told this beforeEqual to love, we have to give mutual respect to each otherI think that’s really importantAnd it should be everlasting, but a lifelong relationship, not just once.” The actor has also previously spoken about keeping love alive even after marriageHe believes couples should continue making an effort rather than treating marriage as the end of romance.
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What Suriya says about supporting women
Suriya has also highlighted the sacrifices women can make in relationshipsAccording to him husbands should stand beside their partners and make them feel valued“Stand by them, love them, give them the respect they deserve,” he said while discussing relationships.
He has also stressed that love should not disappear after marriageIn his view couples should keep loving each other every day while maintaining respect for one another even after many years together.
Suriya and Jyotika’s long marriage
Suriya and Jyotika tied the knot on September 11, 2006 and will celebrate their 20th wedding anniversary in September 2026The couple has two children, daughter Diya and son DevTheir love story began on the sets of Poovellam Kettuppar in 1999.
They later became one of Tamil cinema’s popular on-screen pairs with films such as Kaakha Kaakha and Sillunu Oru KaadhalAfter marriage Jyotika took a break from acting to focus on their familyWith Suriya’s support she returned to films with 36 Vayadhinile in 2015The couple also co-founded production house 2D Entertainment.
About Vishwanath & Sons
Directed by Venky Atluri, Vishwanath & Sons stars Suriya alongside Mamitha Baiju with Radhika Sarathkumar and Raveena Tandon also part of the castThe film is scheduled to release in Tamil and Telugu on August 14.
The story follows Sanjay Vishwanath a professional pistol shooter dealing with changes in his life during his 40sHis world takes an unexpected turn when a baby in his care requires a bone-marrow transplantMaddy played by Mamitha then enters his life and develops feelings for him.